According to a study conducted at the University of Essex, in England, most women are either bisexual or gay but “never straight.”
This is not a joke — it’s an actual news item. You can read the full story at The Telegraph, but I’ll quote part of it here:
Research has found that though lesbians are much more attracted to the female form, most women who say they are straight are in fact aroused by videos of both naked men and naked women. The study, led by Dr Gerulf Rieger from the Department of Psychology at the University of Essex, involved 345 women whose responses to being shown videos of naked men and women were analysed.
The results, which were based on elements such as whether their pupils dilated in response to sexual stimuli, showed that 82% of the women tested were aroused by both sexes. Meanwhile of the women who identified as straight, 74% were strongly sexually aroused by videos of both attractive men and attractive women.
And then there is this conclusion:
Dr Rieger said: “Even though the majority of women identify as straight, our research clearly demonstrates that when it comes to what turns them on, they are either bisexual or gay, but never straight.”
This fits very well with some of my own theories. In fact, I’ll go even further and suggest that in a truly free society — free of male domination and artificially imposed taboos — sexual relations between females would be at least as common as sex between males and females, probably much more common. How I wish I lived in that society!
As a heterosexual man, I quite frankly admit there is nothing more beautiful and exciting than two beautiful women, or young girls, making love with each other!!… I do not know WHY Lesbian Sex is such a MASSIVE TURN ON for so many men!!? But it seems to be universal: porn films today would be unthinkable without the film including at least one hot lesbian love-making scene!
I gotta say, it’s an interesting study, but I don’t think they can make a blanket statement like that. I mean, there were 26% who weren’t turned on. That kind of negates the statement that ‘all’ women are turned on by other women, doesn’t it?
That post is a head scratcher in more ways than one.
If the Telegraph’s statement is true, then men will never feel comfortable with their female lovers, for fear the woman will fall for another woman and leave the man in the dust.
I hope men can be nice to women and that the ancient code of chivalry is used to better purposes today than it was when it was invented. I don’t really want to be a dominant male and especially don’t want to mistreat women.
At least part of the reason I read and watch lesbian porn is that the women seem to care for one another and engage in true lovemaking, rather than pounding away. I have no doubt there are alpha females that can get a man to do just what they want (one of my girlfriends was that way), and they can enjoy hetero sex and are not necessarily attracted to other females. Neither of my girlfriends showed any attraction to other females, and as far as I know they still don’t.
And I actually don’t like the term “straight” any more. I prefer “hetero” for MF relations.
I don’t dislike men, but I wonder if they are really needed much, for sex anyway. No offense to the males here, but stop the war against women, and that goes for men and women. Also see this link.
Wow you know Kim you still insult men with what you said, we can say the same thing about women what do we need you women for??? Just sex???
As a man I must say that I am not in the least bit surprised at this. To be honest I don’t know why any women would be attracted to men, we are ugly and carry our brains between our legs. I would much rather watch a lesbian scene than a hetro one anyday.
I wonder what percentage of men have sexual fantasies in which they play the role of a lesbian
Just sex???
no most men would want us to be their unpaid, cooks, housekeepers, nannys, whores, mothers, wives,and status symbols , to make babies and take care of them, I think you will a singlemale a long time.
CADOS GROW A PAIR YOU SOUND PATHETIC AND KIM, SERIOUSLY GROW UP OK? I CAN ALMOST GUARANTEE YOU ARE EITHER MARRIED OR HAVE A BF AND EVERYTHING THAT YOU JUST SAID THAT WE SUPPOSEDLY EXPECT WOMEN TO DO I BET THAT YOU DO IT EVERY SINGLE DAY AND DON’T COMPLAIN ABOUT IT
Okay — everyone calm down.
We are not going to allow this thread, or any thread, to become a flame war. We’ll shut down comments altogether if that starts to happen.
Take a long time-out before you post anything else here. Think carefully about what you write. If it is not stated calmly and rationally and politely, then do not post it.
Thank you.
Naughty Mommy, I am behind you 100 per cent on this situation.
When you (members) become the subject of the discussions rather than the ideas and behaviours we are all interested in, you know it is time to withdraw and cool down.
This is, I think, the first dispute we have had, which shows we are growing and we need to grow up.
I wonder if the percentage would be even higher if the sensual images they saw were of beautiful, innocent and naked little girls.
Oh Margaret, if they did that study with every person on the planet, it would likely turn out more the 50% of the world population would indeed be pedophiles. Though; would attitudes towards it change???
I suspect that this sword cuts both ways; that most men are bisexual or gay as well. I’ve never had sex with a man and don’t feel the need to, but am capable of great arousal when, for example, reading the masculine-obsessed fiction of Jean Genet. It’s been well established for many years now that hardly anyone is 100% straight, regardless of gender.
As for the war on women… it’s much too easy for guys to dismiss the very notion as overblown hype, replying with such cop-outs as “Well, I don’t hate women,” or “Y’know, lots of women are really hard on men, too.”
In the world we live in, woman-hatred is a very real, very terrifying thing… and there are thousands of guys who take the war on women quite seriously indeed, wannabe militants who see females, especially when outspoken, successful or even desirable, as their mortal enemy. The fact that so many of these men are pathetic schmucks doesn’t make them any less unpleasant. (Besides, pathetic schmucks can do a hell of a lot of damage when they lay hands on a computer keyboard — or a gun.)
Right now we’re seeing a massive and very ugly backlash against feminism; a backlash far more disgusting than most people could ever imagine. Look up scumbags like Paul Elam, Roosh V and Dean Esmay, to name but three especially odious warriors in this particular jihad. Speaking of jihad, we must acknowledge the role of the religious right in this sexist skirmish, pushing oppression of women as a fundamental component of Christinity, Judaism and Islam.
I’ll stop my rambling, lest it drag on past my bedtime. My basic point is that yes, women do have ample cause to believe there is a “war” on them… and we men need to fucking understand that. It’s the first step to bringing about any kind of change for the better.
WELL SAID, Jetboy*
I am in 100 per cent agreement with you on the second of your messages.
On the first, not so. While I can appreciate the good looks of an Elvis Presley or James Dean or young Marlon Brando, (Now those references do date me, don’t day?) I’ve never felt even a frisson of sexual excitement about any man, or boy.
* I seldom, even never, use capitals like this, but I made a keyboard error, and then I thought, “A big shout of agreement with JB is appropriate here.”.
Pedophilia is perfectly moral, legitimate and healthy! it has ALWAYS existed in ALL different Cultures and Civilisations! It is today’s completely insane, hysterical rejection and condemnation of Adult-Child Sex, which is indeed COMPLETELY IRRATIONAL and crazy! In 30 or 50 years, people will look back in real embarrassment about the criminally insane witch-hunt against pedophiles (most especially in the ultra-anti-sexual, ultra-puritan mentality of today’s USA!!) we are witnessing today, all over the Western World. In the 60’s and 70’s, there was a FREEDOM of THOUGHT, DEBATE and EXPRESSION about this entire subject…that would be simply UNTHINKABLE today, in 2015!…
I agree with Margaret. How could one look at sensual images of naked young girls and in at least some sense not be attracted ?! Innocence and sensuality is seemingly an irresistible combination if one is open to the possibility. An arbitrary age at which this permissible is absurd.
It appears some of our members need to re-visit the Terms of Use. Please refer especially to #10. You might also check out #11 while you’re at it.
I’ve seen this shit before, and frankly, I refuse to allow it to happen on our site. If you can’t be civil with each other, go somewhere else for your reading pleasure.
Thanks, Cheryl and NaughtyMommy.
Hope I said what I meant, in that I hope I find a girlfriend who will be my best friend and equal partner. The part about not trusting girlfriends was the product of an overactive imagination.
I don’t find girlfriends on Websites, but I often find female friends and we get along great.
This is a quick response to Marc, above.
The times when paedophilia was apparently acceptable in many cultures were the times when only very few people (the elite) in any particular society had control over their own lives – the right to decide what they did, where they went, who they spent their time with.
Those times when the few had what we now call rights are not, in the grand scheme of things, far away from us. We can get a bit myopic in the English-speaking cultures. The rights of life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness in the Declaration of Independence of 1776 applied only to white men in the USA.
Children don’t have any rights in many countries, but in some they have protection from ill-treatment, abuse and cruel punishments. Maybe if we did enact rights for all children we would allow some of them the freedom to choose.
For now some of us may feel that there is a greater priority to achieving the right to education for all girls everywhere, than the right to choose a lover. After all if they don’t have a right to education how will they ever know about their right to choose.
I was just stating the fact, that in the 60s and 70s, it was at least STILL POSSIBLE to DEBATE in an intelligent, open way this vast subject, without being automatically THREATENED with VIOLENCE and even murder!! A casual look at some conservative forums on the Web about Pedophilia and pedophiles is enough to make you throw up! It will clearly shows you WHO the actual “degenerates” and “psychopaths” really are!… My position is quite clear: as long as there is FULL, MUTUAL and INFORMED CONSENT, NOBODY has the “right” or “authority” to prevent two persons to love each other, and enjoy all the wonderful spectrum of sexual joys and practices, which may fill their lives with JOY and HAPPINESS! I am convinced that today, MANY Adults and Children live wonderful Love stories with each other…or even simply experience great, intense, mutually-consented Sex with each other as well. WHY such Adults and Children should have to live in perpetual TERROR of being ever found out??! It is now SO BAD, that even the age-old principle of “innocent until proven guilty” is almost NEVER applied in Pedophilia cases in front of Courts…and of course, our despicable mass medias. If you are even SIMPLY SUSPECTED of Pedophilia, you are now AUTOMATICALLY considered as GUILTY in advance! Your whole Life will be instantly DESTROYED, your character publicly ASSASSINATED, and you will be spat upon, the windows of your house smashed with stones every single day, you will be instantly kicked out from your job…and most likely end up in the streets!… I’m not exaggerating: this has happened to countless THOUSANDS of people from all ages and social background, who had the misfortune of being (I repeat again!) simply SUSPECTED of being “pedophiles” or “child molesters”… Is that HUMANE or FAIR??! Of course NOT!! This sick, criminally insane attitude MUST CHANGE, once and for all! I strongly support the creation of Pedophile Associations, by which pedophiles will be able to defend their cause PUBLICLY and OPENLY, with full individual and collective PROTECTION from the LAW!! This is simply the RIGHT of ANY Citizen: nothing more, nothing less!
To the admin: sorry to have used so much caps in my message, but, as a Minor-Attracted Person, this entire subject of the insane legal, social and mediatic repression of Pedophiles, and ANY aspect of Adult-Child sexual relationship, makes me sometimes boil with Rage!!… All I am asking for is INTELLIGENT, RATIONAL PUBLIC DEBATE about this vast subject…Nothing more, nothing less! I have personally made my “outing” to quite a few people! ALL of them reacted positively! They did not perhaps approve of my feelings and desires, but they at least made the effort of understanding them!… That’s why I believe that soon, the intelligent debate about Adult-Child Sexual relations WILL take place…hopefully!
my apologies to everyone here, male and female.
I got off topic and I didn’t mean to.
Of course we all need each other, I have chatted with a couple men here and they are very nice and fun,
and I know women in the real world who would for sure Never have sex with another woman.
and of course one of my favorite writers here is a man.
Now I will go to my room, undress, and stand in the corner while I wait for Naughty Mommy to come give me my punishment.
Kim… may I help? Of course, I’m not much for giving punishment… I’m more of a rewards person. 😉
Thanks for the compliment, Kim. And I don’t think anyone here honestly believes that you hate men. Get angry with them sometimes, sure. As a Y-chromosome-carrying member of the society, I maintain that you’d have to be crazier than a sack of squirrels not to get pissed off at us now and again. At least some of us sorry-ass males have a few redeeming features (clears throat, smiles modestly.)
thanks JetBoy, and of course you could help Cheryl, maybe you’d let me lick your sweet pussy, with your wife’s permission of course,so that you would all know how sorry I was, and then when you cum on my face I would truly feel forgiven. thanks.
Lisa allows me to do anything I want in my imagination. Her sister is the only girl I am allowed to actually have sex with. They have been lovers since childhood.
I don’t recall ever hearing about that,well now I am all sticky down there. thanks for sharing .
kim, you’re welcome! Yes, Lisa has basically lived the life I always longed for, lucky thing!
I know this blog entry is really old, but I thought that I’d say my words too because why not.
Now, I’m a hetero male, but I do actually get around occasionally my some men, even sometimes (although rarely) my MM content, and I do want to “experiment” at some point in my life. Girls obviously still turn me on much more, especially if it’s lesbian content, and one of the reasons I love this site is because of the type of content it has, usually involving little girls and incest. I do obviously feel aroused by little cute girls, partially because I like more “cute” girls than “hot” girls, but as Marc said, I don’t understand why feeling these kind of desires seems to trigger society as if we were monsters. I feel like society labels us as if we were gonna rape children or something. Children are often seen as weak, pure and innocent people, but I know from experience that quite a few children are aware of sex and sexuality besides not having experienced it yet, but that’s usually due to people seeing it as wrong because it contradicts the image of them I mentioned before.
I do have very strong feelings for my little sister and often fantasize about it, hoping that one day we break the chains of restraint, but I’d NEVER do anything against her will, ONLY if she consented, because I actually LOVE her. I have a suspicion that she might feel towards me as a bit more than a big brother but this is purely a suspicion of mine, she knows what sex is and she knows that she’ll eventually have sex with someone. By this study I’d say I’m pretty sure that whenever her sexuality awakens she’ll become aroused by girls too at some extent. Now, if I were to post this out anywhere else I’d probably be labeled as a monster of some sort, at least here I’m more free from judgement.
What I’ll never understand is how I would be treated as a monster for wanting to give love, pleasure, joy and happiness to someone else just because she’s a little girl and my sister; that, is to me one of society’s biggest nonsenses.
I forwarded this on to Letoria, and her comments on it could blister paint: “This is a self-serving, bullshit theory…”.