Cheryl Taggert asked…
What are your “special spots” and “turn-offs”?
It’s been a while since someone posted any new topics here, so I thought I would do the honors. I’ve been thinking about those places on our bodies that feel the best when touched, kissed, or otherwise stimulated. The big question for this forum entry is what kind of physical stimulation turns you on the most? What turns you off?
Now, I am a woman and it goes without saying that the entire area encompassing my vulva is one major erogenous zone. Therefore, let’s try to narrow that area down some for the purposes of this discussion. I know almost nothing about the penis, but we ladies can get very specific about what feels good down there, and what is more “meh” when it comes to pleasurable sensations around the genitals. For that particular area, try to describe what specifically feels best to you. You will see what I mean below in my response.
Gentlemen, you are welcome to participate as well; however, please, no dick descriptions that you hope will “turn us on.” The three owners of this site are not turned on by penises. If you find someone on here who is, by all means enjoy exchanging emails with each other. If you’re talking about an area of the penis, just tell us about that area and how/why it turns you on to have it stimulated in some way. While I have no sexual interest in penises, I wouldn’t mind knowing a few things about them to incorporate in my writing when a man is involved. (I’ve included hetero sex before, with few references to the man’s penis and what specifically is being done to or with it beyond the obvious.)
However, even more important for the sake of this discussion are those other areas. What is that secret place that drives you wild when your lover pays some attention to it? What comes next in the hierarchy of erogenous zones for you? For example, I know some people really enjoy having a foot rubbed, licked, their toes sucked, etc. Other than liking a good non-sexual foot rub, that’s not my thing, but I’ve had girlfriends in the past who do like that, and I’ve always been happy to give those girls pleasure, as long as their feet were clean. So what is your “special, non-genital spot”?
This brings us to part three of this informal survey. What are the things that turn you off? I’m not talking about things that you just aren’t interested in. I’m talking about things that, when you read about them, you either skim down until that scene is finished, or you close that story (or whatever you are reading) immediately and search for some “better” reading material.
Here are my responses to get things going:
- I am a clit girl. Some girls like the feeling of having their vaginas filled or at least having something going in and out of it. While I do enjoy that, it is my clit that gets me off. I enjoy g-spot stimulation, but even that is actually stimulating the clit. That area is basically the back side of the clit, which extends from the surface into the female body. But touch my clit directly when I’m really turned on, and it can feel as if I’m going to jump out of my skin. My clit is not one of those that people might even remotely call “big.” The visible part of my “lady” is about the size of a baby green pea, if that. She’s really like a tiny pearl. She has a tendency to remain hidden in her little blanket of skin until called out to play. Yet, she is very sensitive when I am turned on.
- Lisa knows that I have a soft area on my neck below my earlobe that, if she kisses and licks it, will turn me into jelly. I actually call it my “neck-clit.” Oddly, the area beneath my right earlobe is more sensitive than the area beneath my left. My nipples are also very sensitive (like most girls, I suppose), and so is my butthole. I’m not into having anything “rammed” up my butthole, but I do like a finger gently inserted, and when I’m clean, I love to have it licked and kissed. The area between my vagina and butthole is also sensitive. Lisa enjoys licking me on my butthole and in that area between my vagina and butthole, but only if I’ve showered or cleaned the area immediately before we make love.
- My biggest turn-offs usually involve scat. While I am okay with peeing on someone as long as the person being peed on enjoys it, it’s not my biggest turn-on by any means. I’ve included it in stories because it does intrigue me somewhat, but mostly I’ve included it because I know many readers enjoy that aspect of sex. I don’t hate it, but it’s WAAAY down my list of turn-ons. Poop in sex is a total turn-off for me. I find that if it is involved in a story, I will move on to a different story, not just skim down. I also do not like the idea of drinking pee. I recall a story that I wish I’d never read. It involved some young girls who had sex together, which was well-written, but afterwards they did something that turned my stomach. All I’ll say is it involved a toilet bowl. I won’t disgust those who are like me by going beyond that. Just recalling it to write this turns my stomach. I am also turned off by forcing or manipulating someone who is unwilling into sex (though reluctant is just fine), as well as someone causing physical or mental pain for another person either during sex or otherwise. There are more, but I will leave it there for now.
So, what are your answers to the three questions here? What are your thoughts about my answers?
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Hugs to all,
Cheryl
P.S. – Lisa, I expect you to log in under your own account and answer this. I LOVE YOU!!!!